Wednesday Dec 13, 2023

#389 Breaking Up With Bridezilla

Redefining the "Bridezilla": A Conversation on Empowerment and Authenticity in Wedding Planning

In this episode, we engage in a thought-provoking discussion with Hillary Odell of Hilandel, focusing on debunking the 'bridezilla' stereotype and highlighting the importance of authenticity and empowerment in wedding planning. This episode goes beyond just challenging a term; it's an exploration of societal pressures and expectations, and a call to embrace one's true self in the journey of marriage preparation.


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Topics We Covered

  • The origins and impact of the "bridezilla" stereotype
  • The societal pressures on women and non-binary individuals during wedding planning
  • The role of authenticity and empowerment in choosing bridal attire
  • Challenging unfair labels and stereotypes in the wedding industry
  • The importance of speaking up and expressing personal preferences
  • The intimate and personal nature of creating custom bridal wear
  • Empowering individuals to make decisions that reflect their true selves
  • Hillary's approach to client relationships and the design process
  • Redefining traditional wedding norms and expectations


About The Guest

Hillary O’Dell is the founder and designer for Hilandel, a design label based in New York City, specializing in custom bridal as well as offering a collection of limited-edition ready to wear pieces. With a focus on feminism, sustainable fashion and body neutrality, Hilandel designs are made to feel authentically you from the very beginning. Each bride becomes the muse for her own dress; as it should be. 


Links We Referenced

Hilandel Website

Hilandel on Instagram


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